lovelysoulxo said: I'm really insecure, any advice ?
Sorry for getting back to you so late. I haven’t been on here much.
A lot of people feel that way.
What I’d say is try not to believe everything negative that you may pick out about yourself. You’re probably the only one who will feel totally that way. Instead of focusing on the things you dislike about yourself, try to find the things you do like. It seems to help a lot for me. Not to bring too much of me into this, but for example I dislike my waist. However, I love my legs and my “behind”. So instead of feeling so negative about my waist, I can feel more positive about other parts of my body.
Some people even find little notes or pep talks to help them out. That sort of thing may not be something I do but who knows what’ll work for you. For example, in the morning in the mirror they might tell themselves that they look great or something. Or have little notes on the mirror with positive messages.
Sometimes, you just don’t really need to focus so much on what people might think. Just be you. Tell the world “Here I am. You can like me or not.”
It might be hard and uncomfortable, but it isn’t impossible.